I was a midwife prior to falling pregnant with my first child. I believed this would benefit me and would make it more likely for me to achieve the birth I desired. Everything had been going smoothly and I was low-risk during my pregnancy. That was right up until 36 weeks when my baby decided to remain in the breech position. The previous month I had practiced Spinning Babies techniques, had massages, acupuncture, and regular chiropractic care; all in an attempt to create more space for him to move. At 36 weeks, I booked in for an External Cephalic Version (ECV), but it was unsuccessful. Over the next fortnight, I doubled down on everything I’d been trying, as I wasn’t supported by the obstetric team at my hospital to have a vaginal breech birth. They preferred an elective caesarean section which was the complete opposite of the birth I was planning. I believed in my body’s abilities and at least wanted the opportunity to experience labour. That meant I either had to go against their wishes and present in labour with a breech baby, or transfer care to a tertiary hospital (1.5hrs away from home). Both options made me anxious. After continuing my alternative therapies, I requested another ECV at 38 weeks, and this time it was a success!
Oliver’s Birth Story
I woke up feeling good and went to my regular appointment with my midwife at 39+1 weeks. No signs of labour as of yet, everything measuring well and baby was happy. I went on about my day doing some shopping. My mother in law called and we made a plan to go to the public pool to cool down that afternoon. I drove with her and my sister in law to the pool. We arrived at the pool at 3pm. They got straight into the pool, while I went to the changing room. When I started to undress I had an uncomfortable cramping/tightening sensation, I continued to change and went to get in the pool. As we swam around I noticed the cramping sensation was coming regularly. I didn’t say anything, but after a while my sister in law, a fellow midwife, notice I was quiet and focused on something. She asked if I was getting surges. I wasn’t sure it was anything to get excited about, but we decided to head home when we realised they were regular in timing.
The sensations remained 5 minutes apart throughout the drive back to my sister in laws house. My family wished me well and I left to organise everything at home incase labour progressed. Once home I checked my bags, walked, and used breathing techniques. After a while I received a text message from my husband asking what we should do for dinner. I replied with “I think we’ll be having a baby”. He promptly called to see if I was serious. He asked if he should come home, but I told him he may as well finish the day because I was coping fine. My husband came home around 5.45pm. I was still having regular surges 4-5 minutely, progressively increasing in intensity. I kept mobile, used my birth ball, and continued breathwork throughout the sensations. Labour continued like this for a number of hours, until around 9pm I started to become tired and attempted to rest on the couch. I laid down on my side and a very strong surge began and continued for 4 minutes. I believe this was the point that my baby turned into a more favourable position because labour ramped up from that point. No more laying on the couch! Surges became 2-3 minutes apart. It was at this point I put my Transcutaneous Electrical Nerve Stimulator (TENS) on. With the TENS on the surges were so much easier to cope with, and I liked being able to control the intensity of the stimulation. My husband stayed up with me and provided me with words of encouragement as I did not want any physical touch.
Things continued progressing and around 1.30am the next morning I began to fatigue, feeling as if I wasn’t progressing and started doubting myself. I asked my husband to call my MGP midwife to let her know how I was going. Given the frequency and intensity of my surges we made the decision to head into the Birth Centre. The drive from home was quite uncomfortable and required every bit of focus to remain calm. Staying relaxed and breathing deeply helped me remain calm and connected, even as labour intensified. Being a midwife at the hospital myself I had planned to save myself the long walk from the front of the hospital and go to birth suite through the back door. When we arrived at the hospital I realised I had forgotten my hospital swipe card to get in! I had another surge and with it I felt warm liquid (my hind waters) run down my legs and had an increased pressure at the peak of my surge. As we couldn’t get in and I was not in any position to walk to the front of the hospital, I had my husband call the maternity ward and get my fellow midwives to bring me a wheelchair. I couldn’t sit on the wheelchair and wanted to remain in an upright forward leaning position, so I rode on my knees facing the midwife pushing it.
My MGP midwife arrived as we were being taken into the birth centre. Once we were there I saw the pool was not yet filling and I urged her to get it started. Given it was my first labour, I agreed to a vaginal examination to assess progress prior to getting in the pool. My midwife quickly said “Yep, you are ready to get in the pool!”. I later learned I was 9cm dilated with bulging forewaters (the amniotic sac and fluid in front of babies head). After examination I turned to get off the bed and felt intense pressure with a surge followed by a pop, my waters had released.
I was reluctant to say goodbye to my trusty TENS machine, but determined to get in the water. I continued to labour in the birth pool and started to feel the incredible sensation of my pelvis expanding as my baby moved downwards. I remained very focused on my breathwork and used counting in my head to get through this stage. I avoided active pushing, instead breathing baby out to protect my perineum. Then all of a sudden he was here! My baby boy entered the world through a beautiful waterbirth at 3.36am. I was exhausted but ecstatic, and in awe of my mind and body. I had done it! I had achieved the natural water birth I had been dreaming about since before even falling pregnant. How incredible.
Oliver had immediate skin to skin and initiated breastfeeding quickly. After the routine checks we were all done and ready to go home at just 4 hours postpartum. I couldn’t have been happier with the whole process. This experience showed me just how powerful the mind-body connection can be. With support, trust, and my hypnobirthing techniques, I birthed exactly as I’d hoped. I learned that self-empowerment in birth comes from trusting your body and having the courage to advocate for the birth you believe in.
-CM